The Incandescent (Tesh)

May. 20th, 2025 08:34 pm
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4+/5. Cut for length and at least one random aside; no spoilers. )

Not sure about that one minor spoilery thing. )

Anyway... [personal profile] hidden_variable and K, I spent this entire book thinking, you should absolutely and positively read this book!! (And many of the rest of you should too -- [personal profile] crystalpyramid, I think this is also directly relevant to your interests -- though I also don't think everyone who liked SDG will like it.)

LEP 18.5.

May. 18th, 2025 01:37 pm
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Why is The Spruce so popular when their fucking site is so horribly bad. It's always at the top of my search results and no matter what I do the site simply will not scroll or display pictures correctly.

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In 2005, artist Rhea Ewing had a lot of questions about their own gender identity. Some of those questions were so big and so formless that they didn't even know how to ask them.

They started a kind of study, gathering people who were willing to talk to Ewing about their gender identities. Because Ewing thought in visuals, they turned it into a comic. It was originally meant to be maybe 30 pages, a little project for their final university project. Ewing soon realized that this work was too complex and multifaceted to be that simple booklet, and in fact, they didn't finish the comic until the early 2020s.

The book is arranged by topics, starting with Femininity and Masculinity and then working through more of the interviewees' experiences within themselves and then out in the world of other people, through Hormones, Healthcare, Queer Community, and much more. Under each topic are relevant snippets of the actual interviews, drawn as lively, expressive comics, and the words of the interviewees are thought-provoking and sometimes heart-rending.

Some reviewers I've read are miffed with Ewing, because the artist doesn't come up with a specific plan or specific answers to the issue of gender in today's society (and yes, there is acknowledgement and discussion of variations in culture within that society). But in fact, there are conclusions, expressed on the last couple of pages before the acknowledgments. What there isn't is a step-by-step recipe for "solving" the question of gender. And if you really read that far, you should appreciate why.

LEP 15.5.

May. 15th, 2025 11:06 am
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I love trying to describe my job in the smallest words possible because it sounds like nothing.

I loosen and fasten screws and bolts all day.

Sunshine (Superman) Revival

May. 13th, 2025 10:58 pm
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Hello, friends!

I am setting up this post to start the tags for both Sunshine Revival AND Fannish 50.  Will I do either of them?  Will I do both of them?  Or maybe none of them???

Who knows!

LEP 13.5.

May. 13th, 2025 12:53 pm
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I have so few friends who aren't either queer or autistic that whenever I'm exposed to supposedly completely heterosexual games of gay chicken I'm just like ???? are you sure you're not just bi? Is this a bit??

Men be saying some of the most violently homoerotic shit to each other but it's fine because it's not flirting, it's not, they're straight, honest!!!

Kids and math: three things

May. 12th, 2025 12:59 pm
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1. Hmm. So remember how I told you E did reasonably on the JMO? I'm not taking that back, but it turns out to be somewhat more complicated than that.
Ugh, a lot of words, very boring )

2. Math at A's school, or the lack thereof )

3. This morning was Mathcounts nationals countdown round! E has been looking forward to this for weeks on end, despite the fact she is no longer in middle school and has never gone to nationals herself, and would have tried to watch as much live as she could, except that she actually had an AP exam this morning. So our family is gonna watch it tonight, and until then she has turned off Discord and google chat so no one spoils her. I think it's hilarious and fun that E thinks of math competitions like most people think of sports competitions -- and so do I, I've always been like that too, so it's something we have in common too :) (D does not think about it quite like that, although he doesn't mind watching with us. I suppose reasonable people don't, heh.)

Romance books (one with gore)

May. 11th, 2025 01:30 pm
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Hey heeeey Hugo books are out and although I am feeling kind of unmotivated for most of the categories, I might actually end up reading some of the novels. In the meantime I am researching romance novels for Reasons (beta reasons) and have read some romance or romance-adjacent books, one of which doubles as Hugo reading.

Romancing the Beat (nonfic), Yours Truly, The Friend-Zone Experiment, A Sorceress Comes to Call )

LEP 11.5.

May. 11th, 2025 04:47 pm
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The new post interface jumpscared me with an "unclosed tag" banner as I was editing a post and once again I am so unbelievably glad this site exists.

Early Bird Gets The Worm 2025 Letter

May. 10th, 2025 03:28 pm
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My general preferences are here.

DNW: unrequested mundane AU | female characters in fridges | non-con | violent dub-con | graphic violence | gore | graphic sexual violence | cruelty/death to animals | cruelty/death to children | requested character death | unrelieved grimdark | bigotry by the good guys | first or second POV | reader fic | ABO | soulbonds | wildly OOC in a non-cracky way

 SMUT DNW: creampies | the word “cunt” | anal | hate each other out of bed | underage | incest

MAYBE: no-harm dubcon (sex pollen or “fertility artifact”) | period typical attitudes | infidelity | power dynamic

Treats are welcome!

 

So happy to see this challenge, I have been missing Night on Fic Mountain!

 

Wake Up, Wake Up )

 


Fandom 5K 2025 Letter

May. 10th, 2025 02:19 pm
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My general preferences are here.


 

DNW: unrequested mundane AU | female characters in fridges | non-con | violent dub-con | graphic violence | gore | graphic sexual violence | cruelty/death to animals | cruelty/death to children | requested character death | unrelieved grimdark | bigotry by the good guys | first or second POV | reader fic | ABO | soulbonds | wildly OOC in a non-cracky way

SMUT DNW: creampies | the word “cunt” | anal | hate each other out of bed | underage | incest

MAYBE: no-harm dubcon (sex pollen or “fertility artifact”) | period typical attitudes | infidelity | power dynamic

 

Treats are very welcome!

 

 


Jukebox 2025

May. 9th, 2025 06:39 pm
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My general preferences are here.

 

 DNW: unrequested mundane AU | female characters in fridges | non-con | violent dub-con | graphic violence | gore | graphic sexual violence | cruelty/death to animals | cruelty/death to children | requested character death | unrelieved grimdark | bigotry by the good guys | first or second POV | reader fic | ABO | soulbonds | wildly OOC in a non-cracky way

 

SMUT DNW: creampies | the word “cunt” | anal | hate each other out of bed | underage | incest

 

 MAYBE: no-harm dubcon (sex pollen or “fertility artifact”) | period typical attitudes | infidelity | power dynamic

 

TREATS ARE ALWAYS WELCOME.

 

I have listed pairings/characters under some of the songs to give a bit more of a vibe for what I am looking for, but feel free to use them if you’re familiar with the fandoms!

 

Drop a Quarter in the Jukebox... )

 

LEP 9.5.

May. 9th, 2025 12:46 pm
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Domtops in fics are always written to have such uncomplicated and healthy relationships to their sexualities and for my mental health I need us to collectively start giving them complexes about being some kind of monstrous predatory freak of nature instead.

Make that guy have a panic attack b/c someone in his daydream told him to stop and he kept going anyway.

ETA: New and improved! Sad Wet Dog of a top is thinking about how he wants to hurt you but doesn't want to hurt you and it's slowly and Steadily making him Lose His Whole Fucking Mind.

Fandom 5k Letter

May. 9th, 2025 01:29 pm
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Dear Author,

Thank you so much for writing for me! I'm really excited to see what you come up with.

This letter contains a list of Likes and DNWs as well as a couple of prompts. If none of the prompts catch your eye, then write whatever you like. As long as it doesn't hit any of my DNWs, we're good.

Read more... )

And that's it! That's the letter. Thank you so much for writing for me. I'm really looking forward to seeing what you create.

Torilla tavataan

May. 8th, 2025 07:50 pm
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In the midst of wrestling with French bureaucracy (you'd think I was the first person ever who moved to France), I have been incredibly disappointed in the selection of fruits and veg in French supermarkets. My local grocery (a non-chain Asian store) is better for veg, especially East Asian cruciferous vegetables, but doesn't really carry fruits and a penguin wants an orange sometimes, ok? Yesterday I learned that the general horrendous state of fruit and veg in supermarkets is because it is all processed through a central processing station, most likely also frozen, and in general about a million years old before it hits the shelves. This is fine for e.g. ginger, but cucumbers? Lol no.

So the locals go to various farmers' markets, usually on Sundays. I generally go to one in Little Africa, and, while usually Paris has Way Too Many People for me, this is fine somehow, despite having a larger concentration of people than Paris usually does. I did a bit of introspection while I was chomping on my (delicious, delicious) orange, and then realized that it's a tori! Sure, the Finnish ones are on a square, and this is a bit more cramped due to the fact it's on a street, but this is a healthy marketplace where people sell stuff like fruits and veg, and there's just this fundamental sense of Rightness that I get when buying stuff from such a market: this is the way things should be.

(You could also make much about how I feel more at home in places filled with other immigrants/minority cultures even when physically I look less like them and more like the local majority, but that's a deeper can of worms.)
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